soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit
our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves
step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be
loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each
unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong
around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our
soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of
direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up,
chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who
makes life come to life.” ~Richard Bach~
The problem is that people sometimes open the locks being not them :) Earlier or later all lies become visible... and then locks that have been opened are changed...and it is hard to trust other people... We are that we are and if we cant be as we are (even if reality is cruel) we havnt found soul mate... we have just found sweet lies that will hurt us.. and if person havnt been ours...it is better that she/he goes...people love theater, like to fight for things and love them, like love their works because believe they are essence of life (yes our works show essence of life...but)...but forgot that there could not be love without people that love them and there couldn't be essence of life without living life...sometimes it is worth to stop and look on the tree near your home and you will see it different as you have "seen" it all the time ... often the essential things that create our life we dont see or try not to see... but without them there is emptiness....
I can thank destiny, God and faith that i have what i have - someone i can trust the same as i trust myself :) Somebody that i can call honest, pure, loving and beautiful in all aspects that can human being have, even if there is heavy thoughts, irony i can understand it - because it is real and logical... IT IS REAL!